The wife who intends to solve the problem of husband infidelity
Many wives suffer pain and difficulty due to husband infidelity, and make efforts to solve the problem taking diverse measures. However, it is sad that wives hardly use accurate methods to solve the problem of husband infidelity.
The wife makes efforts using different methods and spending time and money, but the time, money, and efforts spent may only help accelerate the process of couple crisis, seperation or divorce, or the worst type of dissolution of family. The wife would blame the husband and the adulteress for everything, and protest that she is the victim. The matters have gone to the worst any way. Many wives have experienced such processes in the circumstance of husband infidelity.
You must proceed according to the right order and procedure in order to prevent the situation developing in the worst direction due to husband infidelity, and live happily after getting out of post traumatic stress. Missing any one point may lead to the worst situation rather than solving the problems. Please bear in mind this point.
[How to solve the problem of husband infidelity]
Stage 1. The wife must treat rage and wounds, and build happiness
ability no matter what.
1) 4 things that must be done : Requirement (Therapy Tour or On-line Treatment
- Learning the principles of mind (psychology treatment)
- Therapeutic tasks (wound treatment, free of charge)
- Consultation for check up for treatment (no time limit, free of charge)
- Continuation of will and efforts (participation in seminars, free of charge)
*Therapy Tour and On-line Treatment Training offer the above 4 components as
2) Things you must never do : ways to aggravate the situation
- Counseling including infidelity counseling, psychology counseling, and couple
- Coping against the husband or the adulteress, filing a lawsuit, getting a divorce,
attacking, surgery on the body, learning sex technique
- Depending on other things, studying psychology, understanding infidelity,
depending on videos, writings, lectures, and speeches, immersion into other
* It is never too late to start any of the above when you have the ability of
happiness after wound treatment and psychology treatment.
* When the wife has the ability of happiness after wound treatment and psychology
treatment, she can have the stability of psychology and happiness ability whether
the husband is treated or not, and whether the husband still continues infidelity or
not. It must be kept in mind that, although you suffer from pain and rage now, you
will be eauipped with the ability to solve everything after treatment.
Stage 2. Offering an opportunity for husband treatment and the
possibility of husbnad treatment and enlightenment
1) The husband himself must realize his problems and feel the necessity of
2) The husband should be able to have the perspective of hope and possibility of the
wife's treatment and future happiness.
3) Only then, he can have the will for treatment and make efforts.
* Husband treatment is impossible in cases the wife is not treated, the wife forces
him to be treated, or the husband does not realize the necessity of treatment.
Stage 3. Living happily
1) In case stage 1 and stage 2 are completed.
- The couple relationship is fully recovered.
- Live happily as a happy couple
- Infidelity does not recur.
2) In case stage 1 is completed, but stage 2 is not.
- The wife lives happily with children.
- The wife can offer the husband an opportunity for stage 2 (The wife's decision)
- The wife is equipped with the ability to cope against the husband and the
adulteress (Filing a lawsuit, coping, and attacking are all possible)
- The wife has the ability to live happily even when she chooses to get a divorce.
- The wife never becomes an adulteress.
* The wife who lives without completing stage 1 : She has 90% probability of becoming
an adulteress, and is bound to live an unhappy life.
* It is recommended to proceed with stage 1 and stage 2 simultaneously, but stage 1 can
and must be proceeded first when the husband refuses or avoids.
* When the wife is not treated, it is impossible to treat the husband under any
circumstance, the opportunitiy for husband treatment is lost, and there is no
possibility for couple happiness.
* The problems of husband infidelity can not be solved with any method
unless the three stages are proceeded in the designated order.